An Informal Survey and a Giveaway of Bonnet Strings

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First I would like to announce a giveaway of Bonnet Strings: An Amish Woman’s Ties to Two Worlds. Please read down through this post to find out how to enter.

The team at Herald Press and I are in the countdown… there are sixteen days left until Bonnet Strings is launched. Last week it felt like a long time, and this week it feels like it is no time at all.

And of course the day after my book launches, the PBS documentary “The Amish: Shunned” will air on American Experience. I’m sure that will intensify things.
Already there are so many things to think about. There are speeches to prepare, a cross-country book tour to organize, props to prepare for speaking events, keeping up with email correspondence, Facebook, Goodreads, this blog, and interviews to prepare for, and soon there will be many books to sign.

That calm I mentioned last week ended quite abruptly on Tuesday when my email account was hijacked. Someone sent out “an important newsletter” from Google docs. I tried sending an email to everyone in my contact list to let them know not to open the newsletter, that this document was not sent by me. Then I realized that most of my contacts were expunged from my lists. I had several groups set up in my gmail, and those were all empty. Only a fraction of my contacts remained. So my apologies if any of you out there ended up receiving the phishing email sent out from my account. My advice is the same as everyone else’s out there… make sure you change your password.

I never thought this would happen to me. I use a Mac. I use secure passwords. I don’t visit risky sites. I don’t open documents that look the least bit suspicious. And yet it did happen to me. In my “recent activity” I could tell exactly what time my account was hacked, what computer system and browser this person was using, the area where it was done, and even the IP address. And yet there is no one to report it to, and therefore no consequences for the actions. It makes me realize the Amish are on to something in thinking carefully about the technologies they adopt.

This has added to my feeling that there is so much to do. I have been researching secure email systems and coming up with little.

I’m thinking I will need to let go of something when the book launches and the film airs. Social media comes to mind. And that is where you come into the picture, my dear and loyal readers. To enter the contest for a free giveaway of Bonnet Strings, please leave a comment to answer this question:

If I decided I could not maintain both this blog and Facebook, which would you want me to continue?

When you cast your vote in this informal survey, I will enter your name into the drawing. I will choose a winner on Sunday, January 26.

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63 Comments

  1. Michelle on January 19, 2014 at 5:46 am

    The blog! Most definitely! And I’m so very sorry you were hacked!

  2. Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 5:52 am

    Michelle, thank you for your vote. I will enter your name in the drawing. I know, getting hacked is no fun.

    Saloma

  3. Donna on January 19, 2014 at 6:02 am

    I know blogging is really great. Yet, I rarely get to the sites. I do visit facebook regularly. So, I think if you want to reach the most people possible Facebook is the easiest. Not sure about its security. I recently got some “condit” snapdo thing. I am still trying to get it off my computer. No banking till it goes to the doc. All those words to say.
    Facebook! 🙂

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 12:09 pm

      Thank you, Donna for your vote. I will enter your name in the drawing. Have a wonderful weekend!

  4. Dee Yoder on January 19, 2014 at 7:31 am

    Oh my–sorry you were hacked. I had my email stolen and another person took my identity for the account. Thankfully, it was not an account I used at all, but it was still annoying and a bit scary to see how easily people can do this sort of thing. I hope it’s smooth sailing for you from now until your book launch. 🙂

    As a fellow author, I would guess Facebook would be the most effective way to get messages and news out quickly to your readers. But a blog has more control. (Wow–not a very helpful answer!)

    I hope your book launch is a great success!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 12:10 pm

      Thank you, Dee, for your thoughts. I will enter your name in the drawing.

  5. Elizabethd on January 19, 2014 at 10:45 am

    I don’t do Facebook, I think it is too intrusive. So my vote goes to the Blog.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 12:11 pm

      Elizabeth, thank you for your vote. I will enter your name into the drawing.

  6. Linsey on January 19, 2014 at 11:54 am

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  7. Linsey on January 19, 2014 at 11:56 am

    Your blog , I enjoy reading your perspective on life.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 12:11 pm

      Thank you, Linsey! I will enter your name into the drawing.

  8. timesgirl910 on January 19, 2014 at 12:53 pm

    Your blog. I really enjoy reading it.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 2:28 pm

      Thank you. I will enter you in the drawing.

  9. Marilyn on January 19, 2014 at 1:05 pm

    Saloma, I”m so sorry for all the trouble you went through. I am on FB but I enjoy your blog so much and feel it gives us much more insight than FB. Please keep blogging. May the week ahead be a good one for you!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 2:29 pm

      Thank you, Marilyn, for your feelings about my blog. Your name will be entered into the drawing.

  10. Twila on January 19, 2014 at 1:44 pm

    I vote for blog. I have you in my feedly reader, so always see your updates.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 2:30 pm

      Thank you, Twila, for your loyal reading of my blog. I’ll enter your name into the drawing.

  11. Barb Ann Miller on January 19, 2014 at 2:10 pm

    Facebook! Facebook is where I first read about your new book Bonnet Strings.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 2:31 pm

      Thank you, Barbara Ann, for your vote. Good to know about how you heard about my book.

  12. farmgirl21962 on January 19, 2014 at 3:13 pm

    I prefer the blog over facebook. I have a regular list of blogs that I visit and yours was added to the daily list when I recently found your site. Thanks for all you do to keep the English world informed of the realities in an Amish life. Rebekah

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 8:40 pm

      Thank you, Rebekah! It’s good to know you enjoy the blog. I will add your name to the bonnet!

  13. christine on January 19, 2014 at 6:11 pm

    Dear Saloma. Ever since I found you online I have enjoyed and look forward to reading about you. Please keep going if you can. So sorry to hear about your computer troubles!

  14. Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 6:37 pm

    Hello Christine,

    Thank you for the positive feedback. It is always gratifying to know when people find one’s writing meaningful.

    I intend to keep going one way or another — in which social media is the question. If you have a preference, I’d love to know.

    Would you like your name entered in the drawing?

  15. Karen Hildebrandt on January 19, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    I would choose the blog. Facebook can be time consuming with less impact. Blogging I think would be a better tool in the long run. Thank you, I can not imagine how hard it is to keep up with all that you do

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 8:42 pm

      Karen, I appreciate your vote. I have a harder time managing my time on Facebook also. I will add your name to the bonnet!

  16. ermaleon on January 19, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    Keep the Blog. I go there when I can and catch up if I missed one or two. Can’t do that easily on FB as a post there has about a 24 hour cycle. Your blog posts are more developed than FB posts tend to be. You already know my opinion on steady FB blasts!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 8:43 pm

      Thank you, Erma, for weighing in. Good to know you catch up now and again. A blog does seem more “permanent” than FB. I will enter your name in the bonnet!

  17. christine on January 19, 2014 at 8:20 pm

    Oops! Forgot to answer the question!! I prefer the blog because I think you will be able to really address a topic or share a story instead of a short posting on Facebook.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 8:44 pm

      Thank you, Christine, for your vote. I’ll enter your name in the bonnet.

  18. Monica on January 19, 2014 at 8:30 pm

    I vote for the blog.

  19. Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 8:33 pm

    I appreciate your vote, Monica. I will enter your name in the drawing.

  20. Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 8:34 pm

    This came in my email:

    I am unable to leave a comment as you don’t have the Name/URL option. This is the comment I tried to leave

    I am one of those who do not choose to do Facebook, so I definitely prefer that you continue the blog. I would really miss you if you don’t.

    Nancy
    http://sunnyislandbreezes.com/

    • Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 8:36 pm

      Nancy, if I know how to give the Name or URL option, I would. If you know how, please send me another email and I will add it. In either case, I will enter your name in the drawing. Thank you for your vote!

  21. Mary A. Miller on January 19, 2014 at 9:06 pm

    I am thinking keep the blog! Since, like Erma mentioned, FB posts “disappear” if I don’t get them read right away.

  22. Saloma Furlong on January 19, 2014 at 9:15 pm

    Thank you, Mary, for your vote. I’ll enter your name in the bonnet!

  23. Ben Greenwood on January 19, 2014 at 11:32 pm

    Go with the blog, Saloma!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 12:28 am

      Thank you, Ben, for your vote. I’ll put your name in the drawing. I hope to see you at Scrabble one of these days.

  24. Danice on January 20, 2014 at 12:34 am

    Hello Saloma. So sorry that you were hacked. One bit of advice I can offer, is to not have your email address on your blog or website. Even though it is not a direct link, people can still see it, good as well as bad people. There are places to get free contact forms that do not reveal your email address. I use these. My vote would be to keep the blog. I do use Face Book, but with much caution. (Check there also to see that your personal email address is not being displayed, as well as all other online places that you are present).

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 1:18 am

      Thank you, Danice. I am slowly finding those places where my email is displayed and trying to get it off the internet. But social media is so pervasive… and the default is normally TO display it.

      Thank you for your vote and I’ll place your name in the drawing.

  25. Tom on January 20, 2014 at 12:47 am

    I don’t understand why folks are into Facebook; I must be too old! The blog gets my vote.

    Tom The Backroads Traveller

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 1:19 am

      Tom, thank you for your vote. I know you are a loyal reader of my blog, so that means a lot. I will enter your name into the drawing.

  26. Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 1:42 am

    Lynne Shapiro wrote to me on Facebook:

    Saloma, I want to reply to your question but it seemed to require me to register or some such in order to do so on your blog page. I really think you should keep both the blog and Facebook. The blog is deeper, more serious, better. But I rely on your Facebook postings to tell me there’s something new on the blog. It is possible to be on Facebook but not spend much time on it. (I don’t care if I’m registered to win the book or not.)

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 1:44 am

      Lynne, of course I will enter your name in the drawing. Thank you for taking the time to send me your thoughts. I am looking into setting up a Facebook author page. That way it is a focused discussion, and I can notify people when there is a new blog post.

      See you at Scrabble!

  27. Hamanda on January 20, 2014 at 3:08 am

    What a shame about the hacking, and I hope you’re able to fend off any future attacks.

    I definitely would prefer you continue the blog, since I am NOT on Facebook. I don’t need something else tempting me to spend way too much time online (instead of in REAL life), and I also don’t like the infringements Facebook seems to make on even the concept of privacy. How old fashioned of me!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 5:16 am

      Hamanda, thank you for your empathy about the hacking… it’s not fun.

      Old-fashioned is good! As I mentioned, I sometimes remind myself of what was good in my Amish life.

      Many thanks for your comments. I will enter your name in the drawing.

  28. Katie Troyer on January 20, 2014 at 3:37 am

    The blog for it has much more depth to it than a little Facebook thing.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 5:18 am

      Katie, as usual, you make me smile. I love your choice of words.

      Thank you for your vote. I will put your name in the bonnet!

  29. Sharon GARDNER on January 20, 2014 at 4:04 am

    I vote for your blog. Even though I do blogs and facebook, I enjoy going back to my favorite blogs and rereading–that’s hard to do on facebook.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 5:19 am

      Sharon, you make a good point. Thank you for your vote. Your name goes into the bonnet for the drawing.

  30. Katherine on January 20, 2014 at 8:04 pm

    Sorry to hear that you were hacked! I hope that you are able to get everything back to “normal” soon. I vote for the blog.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 11:58 pm

      Thank you Katherine, for your vote. I’ll enter your name in the drawing.

  31. Audrey Dalton on January 20, 2014 at 11:52 pm

    I think it would be better to keep the blog.
    I enjoy reading it, and I am not on Facebook!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 20, 2014 at 11:59 pm

      Thank you, Audrey! Your name will go into the bonnet for the drawing.

  32. Peggy on January 23, 2014 at 2:25 am

    Saloma, I love your blog and it can be accessed any time without a special account; but I have to say it has been fun seeing you pop up in my news feed on Facebook 🙂 What I like about Facebook is that you can keep it as private as you want and use it as often or as little as you want. I especially like it for pictures. I have already ordered your book, so no need to enter my name (giving others a better chance to win) but thank you for your generous offer!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 23, 2014 at 2:51 am

      Peggy, thank you for your feedback and I’m so glad you are enjoying my FB posts. I am still learning the ropes.

      You are so kind to offer the book to someone else. If you want to put your name in for a possibility of owning a second copy, please let me know.

  33. MIDNITE FOODIE on January 23, 2014 at 2:25 am

    Hi Saloma, having just re-discovered your blog, I would enjoy reading and seeing more blog posts. They are richer and offer a more complete picture. And cant you have facebook do automatic updates from the blog?! maybe? I have a feeling you would know more about this than me! ;o) ;o) Thanks always for sharing your life stories!

    • Saloma Furlong on January 23, 2014 at 2:46 am

      Thank you, MF, for your suggestions. If there is a way to automatically update my FB when there is a blog post, I don’t have a clue how to do it. I’ve been blogging for more than 4 years, but I am fairly new to FB.

      I will enter your name (which is a hoot) into the bonnet.

  34. Tammi on January 24, 2014 at 8:35 pm

    Hi Saloma, I would like to see you continue with your blog. I enjoy reading it when I have the time to sit and read and have learned so much about the Amish culture from you.

    Blessings,

    Tammi

    • Saloma Furlong on January 24, 2014 at 9:14 pm

      Tammi, thank you for your vote. It is gratifying to know that you’ve learned about my culture from my blog. I will include your name in the bonnet.

  35. coinchantal on January 25, 2014 at 6:53 pm

    If I had to choose, it would be FB because I am more on that and see instant messages coming by.

    • Saloma Furlong on January 25, 2014 at 6:54 pm

      Thank you for your vote and I will enter your name into the giveaway.

  36. saloma on January 28, 2014 at 5:07 pm

    There are many good comments here. Thank you all, so very much. Your feedback is very valuable to me.

  37. Sue on February 5, 2014 at 6:10 am

    I enjoyed so much “meeting” you via PBS! I vote for your blog.
    Sue

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